Saturday, September 10, 2022

blogging July car accident

 On July 20th just after I dropped Madison off at Perrigo Park for a soccer practice, I drove down 95th towards Avondale.  It was minutes before 4pm.  When it was clear to proceed, I turned right onto Avondale into the curbside lane.  A lady sideswiped me changing lanes from the inside lane.  The whole left side of my car damaged.  When we pulled over to assess the damages, busy taking photos with our cells, I broke the ice and said to her, "So I guess you didn't see me?"  Her reply was, "I checked twice and you weren't there.  You must have been speeding."  I said, "I don't know how I can be speeding in this traffic."

Anyways, by 4:30pm, I reported the accident to my car insurance.  And then wrote an online police report.  By the next morning, the case was resolved.  The other driver was 100% liable.

I started feeling discomfort the next day.  Sore neck and shoulder.  Some left knee discomfort too.  I started visiting David Bourree, my chiropractor with regular visits.  Since that initial visit, he did an xray, regular laser therapy and adjustments.  I would regularly ice my knee. 

In early August, we went on a family trip to Whistler.  I spent most of the time with the kids and Gilbert.  We went on a few scenic walks.  Each time after the walks, I felt some discomfort with my knee and would just ice it.  After the last long walk, that was it.  My knee was doomed.  And since then my knee was presented some challenges.  Tightness, pain, locked, unable to fully extend.  I have had difficulty getting in and out of shower, in and out of car, walking down stairs, or have to pause when standing after a long time of sitting.  When walking down stairs, I had to walk one step at a time with the left foot first.  For some reason, if I led with the right foot, it was painful.  Or another easier way to walk down was to go backwards!

Dr. Bourree suggested I go to Reflex Knee Specialist where I had an xray and ultrasound.  Nothing serious was presented.  Some meniscus issues and some arthritis.  

I have also had 3 massage treatments with Alissa Dalke, and that seems to help.  Because I have been limping for so long, my right hip was started to hurt from compensating.

Now we are into early September (today is Sep 10).  My knee is better but not 100%.  I don't have to ice it as much and my limping is less obvious.  I saw Mike Lewis, a PT with Washington Physical Therapy, yesterday, and he gave me some exercises to help work on my knee and left elbow.  Yes, now my left elbow is locked and can't fully extend.  That started last week some time.  It has been painful to shampoo and blow dry my hair.    

A new thing that started two days ago is sharp pain/twinges on my inner thighs, especially on the right side.  Not sure what that is about.  It would just twinge with the smallest movement. 

Because of this car accident, I had to cancel our annual end of July waterskiing trip to Stella Blue and some other shorter adventures.  It's a good thing my girls were able to pick up more work shifts - Jaclyn at Deru and Madison at Trader Joe's - to keep their summer busy.

Queen Elizabeth II has died at the age of 96 at Balmoral

Queen Elizabeth passed away on Thursday Sep 8th.  Just two days prior she appointed the new prime minister of Britain.  Right until the end she continued to serve her country. 

It's the end of an era.  The only queen so many of us have known.  King Charles III ascends to the throne.  

Friday, September 2, 2022

How do I sum up 4 years?

 Oh geez.  It's been almost 4 years since I have entered anything in here.  LOTS has happened, obviously.  Firstly, we had or are in a pandemic.  Imagine that.  Covid-19 hit the world in late 2019 in Wuhan China but the first reported case in the US was right here in Washington in January 2020.  Patient zero, he was called.  There was also a horrible outbreak (& deaths) in a Kirkland Senior Home in Feb 2020 - the first US death.  National news was upon quiet little Kirkland.

Words that come to mind when I think of Covid:  Coronavirus, quarantines, lockdowns, closed borders, vaccination debates,  Moderna, Pfizer, anti-vaxxers, mask-wearing, anti-maskers, supply chain shortages, worker shortages, work-from-home, isolation, school at home, remote, loneliness, mental health issues, PCR tests, empty shelves in stores (no toilet paper to be seen), George Floyd riots, Black Lives Matter, social distancing, 6 ft apart, nature returns, no traffic, social pods & bubbles, Zoom gatherings.

Borders closed in mid-March of 2020 and didn't reopen to Canadians until July 2021.  The last time I was in Vancouver before the borders closed was for Uncle Bob's Celebration of Life.  He passed away on Feb 19th (dad's birthday) and his service was the 1st weekend of March.  Then the borders closed almost right after that weekend.  And almost without notice, school went remote.  

Mrs Tennis continued to teach Madison's 8th grade class and did a stellar job.  It was her final hurrah as she was retiring.  From what I heard from everyone else in public school, not much learning was happening during that time.  Teachers didn't even know what to do.

With the borders closed, that was the longest time away from home.  I saw my mom, brother & my in-laws twice during the time when we found a loophole and were able to meet at Peace Arch State Park.  I saw them around Canadian Thanksgiving Oct 2020 and then around Mother's Day of May 2021.  

Uncle Hong passed away on June 25, 2020.  He hadn't been feeling well, he also had lung cancer which was diagnosed late 2018.  He went to the hospital a couple of times.  We were able to Facetime him the day before.  He was in good spirits.  We joked around.  Teased him about the cute nurses.  We prayed at the end.  I did not think that that would be the last time I would see him.  He seemed so good.  We miss him terribly.  He had such a big positive influence in our family.  He was not part of our extended family.  He was part of our nucleus.  

Madison spent her last months of Stella Schola middle school and most of her 1st year of Juanita high school (Cambridge Program) doing school remote.  Madison was one of the valedictorians in 8th grade.  Did her speech...virtually.  

Jaclyn spent her last months of 10th grade at Inglemoor HS and most of her 11th grade remote.  Traffic was quiet.  Everyone was mandated to stay at home.  We were able to do house projects.  If soccer wasn't halted, the kids had to practice in pods.  Those soccer practices were the only times my kids ventured out of the house.  There were no games, no contact.  Practicing soccer 6 feet apart.

Michael even worked at home - doing telehealth.  Then when he did start to see patients in person, he only saw them on Tuesdays and Fridays, and that was for more than a year.  Now he is almost back to full-time.  

And now in 2022, Jaclyn graduated from Inglemoor High School in the International Bacc Program.  She graduated as salutatorian which is 2nd place since she didn't graduate with a 4.0.  She graduated 3.9947!  And now in a couple short weeks, she will be heading to University of Washington Foster School of Business.

When she was in 11th grade, she & her partner Nicole, came in 3rd in International DECA...which was done virtually...in the category of Team Entrepreneurship.  I didn't realize what an accomplishment that was until I chaperoned her school when they went to International DECA in 12th grade in Atlanta in April 2022.  It was a HUGE turnout - probably 14,000 competitors from all over North America.  She didn't make the final cut that time but it was still a huge accomplishment.  When we got back from Atlanta, we both got Covid.  Probably Omicron because our symptoms were minimal.  I think the worst sympton I had was a runny nose on the 3rd day of my quarantine.  Jaclyn lost her voice.  Madison also got it but I think she got it from school.  Her symptoms were more severe with cold & flu-like symptoms.  She still played soccer because her home test showed negative (but later her PCR came positive.

In 2020, we were still able to do some activities or family getaways.  One memorable trip was a river rafting in Oregon with the Ollis family.  We did our best to self-isolate for 2 weeks prior to the trip so that we could travel with everyone without masks.  We each had our own rafts, ate our own food (not shared).  Then right after that trip, we headed to Stella Blue Lake for waterskiing with the Wrights.  So much fun.

In 2021, with everything quiet, with not many people travelling, we made some wonderful family trips.  We went to Maui in February.  Used timeshare points and found a great location by the beach.  Jaclyn got an abscess in her ear so that limited some water activities.  But it was still a great trip.  Madison was able to do school remote (but had to wake up super early to attend).  Our 2nd trip was in April - we stayed at Kerry's place in Vegas and then headed to Utah to Bryce Canyon & Zion National Park.  That was amazing.  Bryce is a beautiful National Park.  Fun activities in Vegas were family massage, escape rooms, go-carting at Pole Position.   We also did another trip to Stella Blue Lake in July 2021 for some great waterskiing and fellowship.

At the end of April 2021, kids returned to school in person but with strict safety protocols.  Life slowly returned to normal...or now we are in a new normal.  (We can not go back to the way life was before.)

Lots of jumping around trying to sum up 4 years.  I didn't even touch 2019.  What was life like before Covid?

Oh, here is something from 2019, we got a rabbit named Charlie.  Jim wanted us to rabbit-sit for him in Oct 2019 for 2 weeks.  I didn't want to, at first, but then Madison said she wanted to to.  I ended up doing most of the caring and cleaning.  Jim came back from his 2-week trip from Norway only to find his Point Roberts place flooded while he was away.  So back comes Charlie (we missed him anyways).  It's literally impossible to get work done in Point Roberts.  Workers & supplies have to come from the US, not Canada.  And then Covid hit so forget any work geting done on Jim's house.  And we still had Charlie.  After 4+ months, I admitted he was ours to keep and moved him from the basement to the main floor.   So what was supposed to be a 2-week rabbit sitting gig is now almost coming up 3 years. Charlie has been a great Covid pet.  He pretty much takes over the whole upstairs now (except the kitchen) hopping around like he owns the place.  That little 3+ lb fellow owns us.